Adalie and I have worked in Josiah's classroom every Wednesday since the first week of school. And for the first month Josiah was pretty stuck to us, unsure of what to do with her free time (especially on the playground). She was waiting for me to suggest things she should do ("why don't we go play on the swings, that looks like fun" etc). But 3 weeks ago something changed. When it was time for recess, I looked around and only had 1 child, Adalie, hanging close to my leg. Josiah had gone off with her classmates to find her own fun! She appeared confident and at ease. Finally! Hallelujah! She had figured out how to seek her friends and together discover something to do.
It was no secret that I had been concerned for Josiah starting school for many reasons. One of them being that I saw her as a follower. She is a bright girl and doesn't miss a beat. She is capable of seeing a person's quirks, dialects, habits, words, voice, laugh, anything..... and in a matter of minutes be able to incorporate it into her personality. And it scared me!
But last week, I saw her in a whole new light. I went to school a bit early and just watched the children play. And there I saw my Kindergarten daughter with 7 or 8 other girls, all ranging from Kindergarten to 3rd grade, and she had her clipboard and pencil writing each of their names down because they were in her "Gymnastics Class" and she was their "Teacher". I saw my daughter as a leader, not just of the children her own age, but of the older girls too. In a matter of weeks she has blossomed into the place with her peers that she has always held in our family.
And many more times over God has shown me this quality in her; today as she leaned over another girl's shoulder to patiently help her figure out her work, Monday at recess as she developed the "Strawberry Club", and on and on. I am grateful for His mercy.
We are so very blessed!